The only thing I'm committed.

The only thing I'm committed to right now is bettering myself.

Don't worry about hurting my feelings.

Don't worry about hurting my feelings because I guarantee you not one bit of my self-esteem is tied up in your acceptance. 

No relationship is all sunshine.

No relationship is all sunshine, but two people can share one umbrella and survive the storm together.

She's a strong cup of black coffee.

She's a strong cup of black coffee in a world that is drunk on the cheap wine of shallow love.

JmStorm

Love says:

Love says: I've seen the ugly parts of you, and I'm staying.

Being single.

Being single is not a status. It's a time in your life when you get to be happy and enjoy yourself without depending on someone else.

Best decision ever.

Once you realize you deserve better, letting go will be the best decision ever.

Shaming

Still believing

Stupid is knowing the truth,seeing the truth, but still believing lies.

Letting go.

Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.

GUILT TRIP

Guilt Trip

A special kind of manipulation tactic. A manipulator suggests to the conscientious victim that he or she does not care enough, is too selfish or has it easy. This usually results in the victim feeling bad, keeping them in a self-doubting, anxious and submissive position .

You Are Not Everyone's Cup of Tea

Moving on.

Moving on isn't about not loving someone anymore and forgetting them. It's about having the strength to say I still love you, but you're not worth this pain.

Do no harm.

Do no harm but take no shit.

Remind yourself everyday.

Remind yourself everyday:

"I am in charge of my happiness. I will not let anything outside of myself control me. I am creating a life that feels good on the inside and it will turn into experiences that are good on the outside."

I've got this handled.

I'm a natural born provider. I'm not the girl that seeks to be taken care of. I've got this handled.

I knew I matured.

I knew I matured when I realized every situation doesn't need a reaction. Sometimes you just gotta leave people to do the lame shit they do.

Miracles.

Don't give up. Your miracles are on the way.

Everything we go through.

Everything we go through is meant to make us better.

Start missing you.

They start missing you when they fail to replace you.

Never say.

Never say "That won't happen to me." Life has a funny way of proving us wrong.

Gone by sunrise.

Don't waste sunsets with people who will be gone by sunrise.

Young and stupid.

To be old and wise, you must first be young and stupid.

Fake company.

I prefer loneliness over fake company.

Do not tame the wolf inside you.

"Do not tame the wolf inside you just because you've met someone who doesn't have the courage to handle you."

Don't expect.

Don't expect to get what you give. Not everyone has a heart like you. 

Marriage Advice from 1886

Marriage Advice from 1886

Let your love be stronger than your hate or anger. Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break. Believe the best rather than the worst. People have a way of living up or down to your opinion of them. Remember that true friendship is the basis for any lasting friendship. The person you choose to marry is deserving of the courtesies and kindnesses you bestow on your friends. Please hand this down to your children and your children's children. The more things change, the more they are the same. -Jane Wells (1886)

I don't hold grudges.

I don't hold grudges. I remember facts.

Never assume.

Never assume that loud is strong and quiet is weak.

I'll never fit in.

I'll never fit in. That's one of my best qualities. -Terri Willinghan

When it hurts - observe.

When it hurts - observe. Life is trying to teach you something.

-Anita Krizzan

Even if your all is a mess.

I think the most beautiful thing you could ever experienced is finding someone who wants you all. Even if your all is a mess.

Her heart was a secret garden.

Her heart was a secret garden and the walls were very high.

Comfortable silences with.

I like people I can have comfortable silences with.

Begins and ends in your mind.

It all begins and ends in your mind. What you give power to has power over you, if you allow it.

Distance yourself.

Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity.

Keep your self-appreciation high.

how they choose not to love you shouldn't be the deciding factor for how you love yourself. you are worthy of all things good from those who see your true value. keep you self-appreciation high + remember that truth.

Peace begins from within.

Peace begins from within, if you are not peaceful inside, the world you see will be chaotic.

NEVER BLAME.

Never blame another person for your personal choices -- you are still the one who must live out the consequences of your choices. 

Seriously.

Seriously, be strong and know when enough is enough. Take your stand, speak up and refuse to let others hurt you. Throughout your lifetime some peole will discredit you, disrespect you and treat you poorly for no apparent reason at all. Don't consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And don't make any space in you heart to hate them. You don't have control over what other think about you, but you do have control over how you decide to internalize their opinions. Leave them to their own judgments. Let people love you for who you are, and not for who they want you to be. Or let them walk away if they choose. They can't harm you either way; it's their understanding that is faulty, not yours.

I used to.

I used to spend to much time reacting and responding to everyone else that my life had no direction. Other people's lives, problems, and wants set the course for my life. Once I realized it was okay for me to think about and identify what I wanted, remarkable things began to take place in my life.

Avoid people who:

Avoid people who: 1. mess with your head. 2. intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. 3. expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. 4. can't and won't apologize sincerely. 5. act like the victim when confronted with their abusive behavior. 

A taste of you own medicine.

A taste of you own medicine. 

Don't give them a taste of their own medicine. They already know what it takes like. Give them a taste of you own medicine. If they lied, let your medicine be honesty. If they played with your emotions, let your medicine be maturity. If they broke you, let your medicine heal. If they made you cry, let your medicine make them smile. These remedies of yours may take years to work, but they work. And they last. So be patient. Stay true to yourself. And remember this: it is better for people to value you for who you are, not for what you pretend to be. Who you are lasts a lifetime. Who you pretend to be changes like the change of seasons. Don't be afraid to be yourself, even if it means removing yourself from lives that you want to be in. You are, no doubt, worthy of being valued for who you are. So be who you are. 

Look for the blessing instead of the curse.

Some days are better, some days are worse. Look for the blessing instead of the curse. Be positive, stay strong, and get enough rest. You can't do it all, but you can do your best.

Two things I judge harshly on.

there's two things i judge harshly on. the inability for one to admit when they are wrong, and the lack of courage to say i'm sorry. that tells me all i need to know. because we are all wrong at some point. but not all of us are sorry. JmStorm

I have standards.

I can't control your behavior; nor do I want that burden... but I will not apologize for refusing to be disrespected, to be lied to , or to be mistreated. I have standards; step up or step out.

-Steve Maraboli

The only person who truly deserves you

You have given yourself away so many times that you have forgotten this: the only person who truly deserves you has been with you all this time. -Nikita Gill

Fake People

Fake people are only nice when it's convenient for them or they usually have a hidden agenda. Genuinely nice people go out of their way to help others and they have an honest heart. Stick with the ones who never let you down and keep their promises. You can't fake that. 

Do what's best for you.

It's really Okay for there to be times when you stop putting everyone else first and just do what's best for you.

Be confused, it's where you begin to learn new things.

Be confused, it's where you begin to learn new things. Be broken, it's where you begin to heal. Be frustrated, it's where you start to make more authentic decisions. Be sad, because if we are brave enough we can hear our heart's wisdom through it. Be whatever you are right now. No more hiding You are worthy, always.